I find it mind boggling that players are still trying to distill online gaming down to group content (MMORPG) or if you solo, you clearly belong in single-player games (RPG). They speak as if that’s all there is to the game – the manner in which you complete content? I’m baffled by such a narrow definition of gaming - solo or group. Doesn’t that strike you as too vanilla? I don’t happen to like vanilla ice cream. I mean for real, in case anyone cares. *smile*
I ask myself, have they never been with someone doing completely different things but in the same space and enjoying the camaraderie? You’re sitting together on the sofa. Someone is watching TV while the other is reading a book. You go to the mall together. You go into some of the same stores, then split up to hit the shops that only you like and meet back up at the food court for lunch.
My best friend and I like to take vacations together since we’re both single – again. She loves the beach. I tolerate the beach. I love to read, her not so much. We both enjoy good conversation. We head out to the beach together, sitting in the sun relaxing for a long while. When I’m tired of that, I grab my book and go have tea or whatever in the lounge. She doesn’t come until she’s ready – or not at all. Later we head out for dinner and a long chat or sight-seeing together. It’s not all or nothing. It’s not because we don’t want to be doing the same thing, at the same exact time – the WHOLE DAYUM TIME, we shouldn’t take trips together. There’s a middle ground of shared experiences, along with time allowed for personal (solo) experiences. What a shallow place the world and for that matter games, would be, if it could ONLY be one or the other!
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